It's okay! It's not your fault. I've ridden horses like that. And usually, you just need to give them a big kick with your heels. Try not to lift the reins too high and keep your hands close together.
Good luck!
- Mary Ashley
May 17, 2014 Rating
My Trainer by: Violet
When my horse trainer (who teaches me how to ride), rides with split reins, she hits the horse a little bit with the end of them. I hope this helps!
~Violet
Jun 02, 2012 Rating
Spurs and crop by: Eventing Star
I know you said that you wouldn't use spurs or a crop... BINGO!!! That's the problem! Sorry to say! The thing is you need to show her who's boss. You aren't doing this enough. I did this with my pony and now are I have to do is make a clicking sound and she will go! If you think she wont be your friend any more that's wrong! Horses like someone they can look up to and protect them. Your bond will be better if you do this! You need to show them you CAN protect them! Be the boss!!!! You are just taking over the role of the herd leader when you do this! Just like when a horse bites or kicks hit them! This is what they do in the herd! Hope this helps! Sorry if I sound mean I don't mean to just want to help.
Jan 03, 2012 Rating
Thanks by: Kailee
thanks you guys for helping but i really will not use spurs or a crop on my horse but thanks anyways :) and for the one who said i should consider the age of my horse she is about 10.
Dec 19, 2011 Rating
patience by: Anonymous
it takes a lot of patience. my horse didn't move a few months ago but now 1 kick and he'll go instantly.
Dec 05, 2011 Rating
Go by: Kahlan
You can make her go by making a noise when puckering your lips, and by gently kicking her on the barrel Softly with both feet.
Nov 03, 2011 Rating
hello. by: Anonymous
Ride her in a pen with another horse that gets along with your horse.
Horses are herd animals so your horse will be tempted to follow the other horse.
Nov 02, 2011 Rating
spurs by: Grace
have you tried spurs if you haven't they can be helpful make sure you don't over use them though.
Nov 01, 2011 Rating
Age Matters by: Anonymous
The use of a crop of spurs could be effective, but be sure to consider the age of your horse before determining the outcome that is physically possible from her. If she's older, you can't expect lightning speed from her. Good luck!
Oct 30, 2011 Rating
well by: Anonymous
well you could use a crop or a whip and maybe get someone to lead you for a while before u start trying to trot and stuff and use good hard kicks.
Feb 27, 2013 Rating
What about this? by: sweetie22
How about this...... What about something like a whip don't do it so hard but don't do it so lightly either, you can either use a hand whip or a smaller stick.
Nov 19, 2014 Rating
Try This by: kylie
Do you no why she won't go? there might be a reason. Try finding out what that reason is and then try asking her again. I agree you may need to show who's boss...but maybe she needs to trust u more try gaining her trust but make sure she knows you're the Alpha.